Do not have a baby?

My best friend said do not have a baby if I'm having problems in my marriage. I understand what she saying. It doesn't solve the marriage. I don't want to be a single parent. At first she said have a baby already she didn't know what was going in until now. She see how bad it is. The more she notice it and I don't have to tell her. She ask how much longer am I going to deal with this. She wouldn't have put up with the crap I'm putting up. She said the longer he stay away my feelings are going to go away for him. I didn't tell her but my feelings are going away for him.

I'm up way to early. I have to much things on my mind. I'm going to  need lots of coffee.